If you were born with the ability to change someone’s perspective or emotions, never waste that gift. It is one of the most powerful gifts God can give—the ability to influence.

I believe there are only three businesses: my business, other people's business, and God's business.

I believe I will not not die a minute too early or a minute too late, but exactly when I am supposed to.

If you feel anxiety or depression, you are not in the present. You are either anxiously projecting the future or depressed and stuck in the past. The only thing you have any control over is the present moment; simple breathing exercises can make us calm and present instantly.

Health, peace of mind, peak performance, and success in any area of life all depend upon doing the right thing at the right time, in harmony with the cycles of the Four Seasons.

In my experience, stress is the cause of all injury and pain.

The only real battle in life is between hanging on and letting go.

The zenith of the peak of mountains has to be balanced by the nadir of the depth of the seas.

People never remember who helped them conquer their dreams. When they truly achieve a lot, they often forget me easily. I’ve noticed the same behavior in both children and adults, and even in family members. And it’s kind of interesting that they forget easily once taking ownership of their newly owned skills. Probably, if they remembered, they wouldn't take them as their own. They would probably not even comprehend them. That's why I believe that, if you wish to change the world, you have to do the opposite, you have to not need it. Because, if you are really good, people will never appreciate you, and you will disappear into a world that merely reflects you better. You will dissolve into the world. The most enlightened individuals are never remembered by history because they have dissolved themselves into the world. There’s no salt in their water, because the salty water has made them vanish from our records. We have neglected them from our history. That’s why a person can't bet egotistical and help others too. One thing has to give in. You either want to be humble and enlighten the world, or you want to be appreciated and reflect the darkness in the world. The most arrogant and admired people have a special kind of ignorance that the ignorant cannot see. The most humble people, have a special kind of wisdom that only the most enlightened or highly diabolical can feel. They make the soldiers of Satan tremble in fear, and the angels of God rejoice in their never-ending uplifting energy. The masses, however, will never know their prophets, not even when they are speaking to one.

If the fire in your heart is strong enough, it will burn away any obstacles that come your way.

I believe in not trying to control things that are out of my control or none of my business.

If you keep focusing on what people have to say or will say about you, you will lose focus of what God has called you to do. Never let distractions bother you...if you do, you will only be giving your energy to an unworthy cause.

If you can show people how to build castles, make sure you do not neglect building and nurturing your own.

We make the journey back to extraordinary love much more difficult for ourselves when we jump back in too quickly. It creates emotional chaos instead of the escape from pain we were hoping for.

No matter what the power source is, a sinusoidal pattern will always remain the same. Similarly, our lives have a certain pattern and that's of happiness and sorrow. We feel that we are in control of things and everything is going according to plan but life is again following a pattern.

All of us evolve everyday! The more we introspect and try to gather ourselves, the more rapid will be the pace of our evolution. The only thing to keep in mind is to be true to yourself.

Life’s best lessons are learned during the most painful experiences.

Have WILD imaginings and then ask for ALL of them!

What you are afraid of is also afraid of you face your fear!

Live your best and leave the rest

Unsettling are the days in which everyone is an expert.

My life's work is to help people step into their God-given abilities and make a positive difference in their community.

The more you talk about it, rehash it, rethink it, cross analyze it, debate it, respond to it, get paranoid about it, compete with it, complain about it, immortalize it, cry over it, kick it, defame it, stalk it, gossip about it, pray over it, put it down or dissect its motives it continues to rot in your brain. It is dead. It is over. It is gone. It is done. It is time to bury it because it is smelling up your life and no one wants to be near your rotted corpse of memories and decaying attitude. Be the funeral director of your life and bury that thing!

As I acknowledge the boundaries within myself, I am given plenty of opportunities to reinforce them.

Someone Else's words can detour your potential!

Your thoughts become your BELIEFS. Your beliefs become your TRUTH. Your truth becomes your STORY. Your story IS your REALITY.

Is your life story the truth? Yes, the chronological events are true. Is it the whole truth? No, you see and judge it through your conditioned eyes and mind - not of all involved - nor do you see the entire overview. Is it nothing but the truth? No, you select, share, delete, distort, subtract, assume and add what you want, need and choose to.

The simplest way to enjoy lasting success in life is to strike a balance between your career and family. If one must suffer, never it be your family.

Tough love and brutal truth from strangers are far more valuable than Band-Aids and half-truths from invested friends, who don’t want to see you suffer any more than you have.

Keep those that influence you for the better close and never give them a reason to keep you far away.

…one lives and analyses data within a frame, unaware that the solution is most often just outside of that frame. Never underestimate the depth of your subjectivity.

When everyone believes they are the life coaches, who are the players?

Happiness supports enthusiasm and empowers creativity and initiative.Happiness makes you a better person in your private, family, and work spheres.Happiness keeps you healthy and lets you stick to your plans. Cultivate happiness as the most precious flower in your Garden. - From HAPPY DIVORCE, by Rossana CondoleogardenRossana Condoleo

Divorce = Rebirth: forget the past, replan your life, improve your appearance & REJUVENATE!

Do the things you like to be happier, stronger & more successful. Only so is hard work replaced by dedication.

If we could eliminate the concept of town and return to live in small villages, all world problems were solved.

Divorce is the start point for a brand new life. Don't lose the chance to redesign it upon your dreams!

Let your projects be independent organisms. They will develop their own beautiful architecture.

Self discovery is the best investment that you can make.

Don't be limited by your limitations.

Whoever controls the money, controls you!

Don't be afraid to say "No". It's empowering. Remember, a "Yes" is a commitment. Give them wisely.

Manage your life as you manage your money.

Give your trust sparingly and only to those who have earned it.

When we do something we like, we are not only happy. We are also very strong!

One of the most powerful opponents of happiness is indeed fear. Unfortunately, the chains that bind people to their comfortable mediocrity are the same ones that bind their future to an unsuccessful destiny. The courage to dream is the very first step. LISTENING TO YOUR DREAMS is the second!

Belief in oneself is an essential factor for success in life. It helpsyou surmount challenges on your road to success.

If you want to heal a broken heart,Be smart! That's all an ancient art.Start by loving the very small partsThat were left there shattered apart.

You've got to be around people who encourage you, advice you and want to see you go even higher and higher than they themselves have attained!

Like it or not, we are all in business and the products we are selling is our unique selves.

Sensitive people care when the world doesn't because we understand waiting to be rescued and no one shows up. We have rescued ourselves, so many times that we have become self taught in the art of compassion for those forgotten.

Power comes to those who take it.

Learning to have the confidence to grab the opportunity when it presents itself makes you a winner.

One Decision Makes All the Difference

Never allow yourself to become a choice in any relationship. The moment you do is when you have reduced your loved one's affections to a daily biological question: Should I take a dump here or wait till I get home?

The power to change comes from within and they have to want to change. Instead, be a role model and encourage by example.

Sometimes being happy willrequire some difficult conversations.Some of those conversationswill be with yourself.

If someone tries to undermineyour commitment, re-evaluateyour commitment to them.

Identify your driving motivationand you will have all theencouragement you need.

To be happy, you need to dothe right thing for you,even when it feels like thehardest thing in the world.

Live your life with courageousintegrity. Do the right thing,not the easy thing.

There is a big difference betweenbeing self-ist and being selfish—putting yourself first doesn’t meanyou have to put everyone else last.

The most importantcommitment you will ever makeis to being the best you can be.

Being the best you can betakes courage. You need to ownyour decisions and have thecourage to see them through.

It’s easy to be brave wheneverything is going your way.When the going gets tough,it takes courage to followthe path you believe in.

Be honest with yourself.You can’t be the bestyou can be unless you knowwho you really are.

Unless you have thecourage to say ‘no’ tothe things you don’t want,it’s hard to say ‘yes’ tothe things that you do want.

Don’t rely on the opinions of others.Only you will know what isright for you.

Be courageous in yourdecision-making.Stand by your choicesand never look back.

Very few changes in life areachieved without effort and acommitment to making that effort.

The only person who cantake responsibility for yourhappiness is you.

When you decide to be the bestyou can be, don’t be surprisedif the circle of people youwant to spend your time withbecomes smaller.

Most people are fine with fineand okay with okay.If you want to be the best youcan be, make sure you’re not.

Don’t take your happiness forgranted. Be proactive aboutmaintaining and sustaining itin your life.

Commit to being happy andmake the choices that willsupport your commitment.

Although happiness is a stateof being, it usually still requiressome doing if it is to belasting in your life.

Recognise how muchyou have to give.

Give the people you love thebest of yourself, not the worst.

Sometimes you have to risk orgive up some of your financialwealth to have a richer life.

Every time you say ‘but’, you aregiving yourself a get-out clause.

When you understandthe difference betweenwant and need, you willfinally realise howrich your life really is.

There is nothing wrongwith enjoying life’s luxuriesas long as your happinessisn’t contingent on them.

Challenge your assumptionsand identify your limiting beliefs.Every time you find yourself thinkingthat you can’t do something,ask yourself, ‘Why not?

So many people sabotagetheir own chances for happiness—don’t be one of them.

It is only when your actionsand words are aligned that youcan achieve your true potential.

There is nothing wrong withwanting more. There is no reasonwhy you shouldn’t get everythingyou want from life.

There is nothing wrong withdeciding that you don’t wantsomething, but if you do want it,go out and get it!

Just because there is an obstaclein your path, that doesn’t meanyou have to get off the road.

Worrying about money isone of the biggest causes ofunhappiness, but no amountof money can make you happyunless you change theway you feel about it.

Just because there are thingsyou still want, that doesn’t meanyou can’t feel gratitude for all thewealth and abundancealready in your life.

Having a poverty mentalityleaves you focusing on all thethings you don’t have, when inreality you probably already haveeverything you need.

You have to give yourselfpermission to be happy.Nobody else can give it to you.

Being happyis not a privilege—it is somethingeveryone deserves.

Most of the things youfind yourself wantingwill have little or no bearingon the happiness in your life.

Find a way to express yourgratitude for the wealthand abundance in your life.

Focusing on scarcitywill only create moreof the same.

One of the most powerfulquestions you can ask yourself is,‘How do I hold myself back?’Once you know the answeryou can get out of your way.

The only way to get anunderstanding of the true wealthin your life is to acknowledge all thethings you have to be grateful for.

Being generous is not just aboutthe decisions you make withyour wallet. Being generouswith your time and energyis just as important.

If you are generous in yourrelationships you will receiveas much as you give.

Everyone has a differentjourney in life. Don’t judgesomeone else for theirs.

Before passing judgementon someone’s choices,stop and look at the questionsthey were trying to answer.

Most people are doing their best,most of the time.

If you want to bethe best you can be,don’t judge anyone.Not even yourself.

Remember to afford yourselfthe same generosityyou give to others.

Be generous with yourtime and energy. The harderit is to give, the morethe other person deserves it.

If you believe in yourself,anything and everything is possible.

The only thing you have totalcontrol over is who you choose to be.Be the best you can be.

Accept the past,dream of the future,but live in the moment.

Learning from the past can helpyou move forward. Lingering inthe past will only hold you back.

Nobody from your past should beheld responsible for your future.The only person accountable foryour future is you.

Look for the joy in each andevery day. Just because it isn’timmediately obvious, that doesn’tmean it’s not there.

It’s hard to be present whenyour attention is sufferinginformation overload.Switch off and just sit still.

Be there when you are there.Don’t try to juggle all the roles inyour life. Focus on the role you areplaying and do it to the bestof your ability.

Multi-tasking is stressful.You will get things donemuch faster if you do themone at a time.

Having a vision is great,but don’t be so focused onyour next goal that you forgetto enjoy your achievements.

Nobody’s life is perfect.Rather than wishingfor things you don’t have,make the most of thethings you do have.

It’s okay to aspire to a better life,but don’t let it stop you fromenjoying the life you already have.

Your expectations determineyour experience.Expect the best from lifeand you will usually get it.

Worrying doesn’t change anything.Focus your energy on the outcomeyou do want and then do whatyou can to make it happen.

Most of the things that go wrongin life don’t have a lasting impact.Remind yourself that if it won’tmatter in ten years’ time,it doesn’t matter today.

See the world as beingfilled with positive potential.Focus your attention onyour intention and make thatpotential a reality in your life.

Don’t be afraid to take a chance.The worst that can happen is thatyou don’t succeed … this time.

Being optimistic isn’t about believingnothing can go wrong. An optimistacknowledges what can go wrongbut expects things to go right.

Remember, however bad thingsmight be right now, this momentwill pass and your life will continueto be a good one.

Don’t deny your emotions andforce yourself to smile when youfeel like crying. Cry, but learn tosmile through your tears.

Be mindful of thecompany you keep.Don’t let negative peoplecloud your vision.

Believe in yourself, believe in yourdreams and believe in your rightto achieve your dreams.

Your life paradigm is the set ofbeliefs or operating system for yourlife. Make sure you choose one thatsupports lifelong happiness.

Regardless of your upbringing orformative experiences, it is never toolate to start believing in yourself.

Examine your self-talk.Never speak to yourselfmore harshly than you wouldto a small child.

The happiest, most successfulpeople believe in themselvesunconditionally. They knowthey can do, be and have allthat they want in life.

Don’t depend on others tofuel your self-belief.Develop your self-belief so thatit becomes self-sustaining.

When you believe in yourselfit is easier not to takecriticism, knock-backs anddisappointments personally

When someone else doesn’t believein you or your dreams, rememberit’s about them, not you.

Let go of the idea of winningor losing. In the game of life,the most important thingis just showing upand doing your best.

You only have one life.Make sure that yours isone you are happyto be living.

Perfectionism is a lost cause.Focus your energy on beingthe best you can be.

True happiness is a state of being,not one of doing or having.

Focus on what matters.Honour your valuesand make decisionsthat are aligned with them.

When you make a choice,acknowledge all the consequences.That way you won’t be leftfeeling compromised.

There is no such thingas ‘no choice’. There arealways other options.Explore yours.

Self-pity never leads to happiness.Remind yourself that the situationmay not be ideal, but it’s rarely theworst that could ever happen.

Don’t sabotage yourchance for happiness.Own up to the real choicesyou are making.

Choose to be happy.It’s the only sensible option!

So many of life’s eventualitiesare beyond your control.Work out what things you caninfluence and come to a peacefulacceptance of the rest.

Choose your battles wisely.Unless you have a very highchance of victory, spare yourenergy and walk away

Don’t be attached to outcomes.Enjoy your experiences for whatthey are, what you have gainedand what you have learned.

Unless you have a crystal ballyou don’t know how thefuture is going to unfold.Focus on the things you caninfluence and don’t fretover the rest.

No matter how much youcare about someone,you can’t take responsibilityfor their happiness.

You can’t make someonedo something just becauseyou want them to.What you do have, however,is the opportunity toinfluence their choices.

Being a control freakis a sign of a vulnerableself-esteem. The betteryou feel about yourselfthe less you need to controleverything around you.

I'm often called in as a coach and speaker to motivate staff, teams, the public and leaders. The key to this is simple; you cannot truly, deeply and sustainably motivate anybody until you know what their motives are...what motivates them...?