I'm not letting go of you.

I'm not letting go of you" - Sam

So this is it. You are scored on my heart, Clark.

No journey out of grief was straightforward. There would be good days and bad days. Today was just a bad day, a kink in the road, to be traversed and survived.

Losing him was like having a hole shot straight through me, a painful, constant reminder, an absence I could never fill.

moving on means we have to protect ourselves.

No journey out of grief was straightforward. There would be good days and bad days.

Sometimes for our sanity own sanity we just have to look at the bigger picture.

When someone we love is snatched from us, it often feels very hard to make plans.Sometimes people feel like they have lost faith in the future, or they become superstitious.

You don't have to let that one thing be the thing that defines you.

It is important not to turn the dead into saints. Nobody can walk in the shadow of a saint.