From His eternal perspective, it's tolerable to allow our temporary dreams to fall apart.

Weight causes things on earth to fall--to remain grounded. What if the weight of sin holds the same purpose as physical weight? When I curl up on my sofa with God and his Word, that feeling that makes me want to bold should be the feeling that keeps me there with him. It's the weight of my sin pushing me down from the high and lofty places where my pride would rather keep me.

You have to thank God for the seemingly good and the seemingly bad because really, you don't know the difference [until we get to heaven].