If you believe that you can use sex to shore up your fragile self-esteem by stealing someone else's, we feel sorry for you, because this will never work to build a solid sense of self worth, and you will have to go on stealing more and more and never getting fulfilled.

One of the most valuable things we can learn from open sexual lifestyles is that our programming is changeable.

Fighting is the ultimate act of intimacy.(...) Intimacy is based on shared vulnerability.