Call your destiny. Put in your work. Manifest your blessings.

I consider myself an American African because we did not come by choice.

Uncommunicated expectations are the shame of relationships.

The dating world makes me feel incredibly vulnerable. You put yourself out there earnestly as available only to encounter some of the most disingenuous people. There seems to be no formula. Just a boat load of anxiety. Did I do this right? Will he call? If I just say I like him, will it backfire because he will know he doesn't have to earn my time and attention anymore? How do people do this......Seriously.....how?